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Spanking the Monkey

Spanking the Monkey is a 1994 American black comedy film[3] written and directed by David O. Russell. It was filmed in Pawling, New York.[4]

Spanking the Monkey

David O. Russell

Michael Mayers

  • July 15, 1994 (1994-07-15)

99 minutes[1]

United States

English

$200,000[2]

$1,359,736[2]

Plot[edit]

Ray Aibelli has finished his first year of college at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. He plans to spend his summer taking advantage of the prestigious medical internship he earned; however, he has to forego the award to take care of his mother, Susan Aibelli. She has suffered a leg injury keeping her homebound just as her husband, Tom, is about to leave for an extended period to work as a traveling salesman. Ray's relationship with his overly controlling father is troubled. Meanwhile, his parents also have a strained relationship with one another. Susan often feels lonely and disappointed by a lack of achievement in life while Tom regularly cheats on his wife with sex workers.


Ray feels obligated to take care of his mother. While helping her shower, he glimpses her naked and experiences a sexual attraction towards her. This leads to a moment of intimacy when he massages her upper thigh. He feels extreme guilt for his incestuous feelings and rubs his skin raw to punish himself. His sexual frustration is exacerbated when while trying to masturbate he is unable to do so, due to the family's dog repeatedly interrupting him. He seeks refuge through his friends from high school, however they are immature and Ray feels increasingly alienated from them. Seeking connection, he begins a relationship with local teenager Toni Peck whom he struggles to communicate with, both socially and during sex, leading to her rebuffing him.


Feeling isolated, Ray turns to his mother and shares with her his recent sexual encounter with Toni, and she offers him sexual advice. He later openly stares at his mother's body in the shower, increasing their physical intimacy. Just as things are escalating between Ray and his mother, Ray has an opportunity to leave his mother behind when his Aunt Helen offers to be Susan's caretaker. He excitedly prepares to leave the next day. Despite this, Ray and Susan have another sexual encounter after Helen annoys them both. This happens late at night and leads to Ray missing his bus the next day. Then, Ray's father informs him that he will no longer be able to pay for his university tuition causing Ray's concern about his future to increase.


Toni and Ray resume their sexual relationship and are kissing when Susan interrupts them. She slaps Toni, injuring her. Ray and Susan have a loud argument that quickly devolves into groping and kissing. Meanwhile, Toni flees and is comforted by her father who then confronts Ray; however, Susan flirts with Toni's father, distracting him from punishing Ray.


Ray attempts to commit suicide by hanging himself from the bathroom door but Susan interrupts him. Frustrated, he complains that he can't achieve anything and attempts to initiate sexual contact with Susan. He kisses her passionately but then pulls back and attempts to strangle her to death, but then stops himself. He accepts an invitation from his friends to hang out with them again, joining them near the river. After being provoked by one of his friends, he jumps off a cliff. Early the next morning, Ray is seen hitching a ride with a truck driver.

as Raymond "Ray" Aibelli

Jeremy Davies

as Susan Aibelli

Alberta Watson

as Tom Aibelli

Benjamin Hendrickson

as Toni Peck

Carla Gallo

Judette Jones as Aunt Helen

as Nicky

Matthew Puckett

as Curtis

Zak Orth

Josh Philip Weinstein as Joel

Judah Domke as Don

Nancy Fields as Dr. Wilson

Music[edit]

Select tracks from Morphine's album Cure for Pain are used throughout the film, including "In Spite of Me" which plays over the end credits.

6th – Bob Strauss, [8]

Los Angeles Daily News

6th – Douglas Armstrong, [9]

The Milwaukee Journal

10th – , Rolling Stone[10]

Peter Travers

10th – Todd Anthony, [11]

Miami New Times

Top 10 (listed alphabetically, not ranked) – Jimmy Fowler, [12]

Dallas Observer

Top 10 runner-ups (not ranked) – , The New York Times[13]

Janet Maslin

Honorable mention – Glenn Lovell, [14]

San Jose Mercury News

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