Stand by Your Man
"Stand by Your Man" is a song recorded by American country music artist Tammy Wynette, co-written by Wynette and Billy Sherrill. It was released on September 20, 1968, as the first single and title track from the album Stand by Your Man. It proved to be the most successful record of Wynette's career, and is one of the most familiar songs in country music. The song was placed at number one on CMT's list of the Top 100 Country Music Songs.
For other uses, see Stand by Your Man (disambiguation)."Stand by Your Man"
"I Stayed Long Enough"
September 20, 1968
August 26, 1968[1]
2:38
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Billy Sherrill, Tammy Wynette
Billy Sherrill
Released as a 7-inch 45 rpm single, it was reported added to some jukeboxes and receiving airplay on select American R&B and country radio stations by October 12,[2] and it entered the Billboard charts on October 19.[1] The song stayed number 1 on the U.S. country charts for three weeks.[3] "Stand by Your Man" crossed over to the U.S. pop charts, peaking at number 19.[4] It elevated Wynette—then one of many somewhat successful female country recording artists—to superstar status. It reached number 1 in the UK Singles Chart when the record was released in the United Kingdom in 1975,[5] and also reached number 1 in the Netherlands. An album of the same name—which was also quite successful—was released in 1968. The song earned Wynette the 1970 Grammy Award for Best Country Vocal Performance, Female—her second Grammy win in that category—and was inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame in 1999.
The song received some criticism during the late 1960s-early 1970s women's liberation movement, as feminist groups deemed it to be too conservative,[6][7] while, for others, the song made Wynette a spokeswoman for working-class housewives experiencing marital disappointments and changing gender roles in the late 1960s.[8] However, Wynette herself said that she had not intended any social or political slant to it. In 1992, during a 60 Minutes interview regarding Bill Clinton's affair with Gennifer Flowers, Hillary Clinton remarked: "I'm not sitting here, some little woman standing by my man like Tammy Wynette".[9] Wynette was angered by this remark and issued a statement shortly after.[6]
Vocal accompaniment is provided by the Jordanaires, who provided background vocals on most of Wynette's hit recordings.
The song was selected by the Library of Congress as a 2010 addition to the National Recording Registry, which selects recordings annually that are "culturally, historically, or aesthetically significant".[10] In 2021, it was ranked No. 473 on Rolling Stone's "Top 500 Songs of All Time".[11]
In popular culture[edit]
The song opens Jack Nicholson's 1970 drama film Five Easy Pieces.[12]
Answer songs included Conway Twitty's 1971 No. 1 hit "How Much More Can She Stand" and Ronnie Milsap's "(I'm A) Stand by My Woman Man", a 1976 number that also topped the country music charts.[13]
The song is performed by the Blues Brothers Band in their 1980 film in the scene in Bob's Country Bunker.
The song is played during the closing scene of The Wonder Years 1993 episode "The Little Women". The episode, set in 1973, featured Kevin and his father Jack feeling down during the backdrop of the women's lib movement of the 1970s, with Kevin's girlfriend Winnie scoring higher at her SAT tests than him and his mother Norma getting a full-time job, so they took their partners out bowling and beat them mercilessly at the game, however, they still remained good sports despite losing, as shown during the drive home.[14][15]
Country band The Chicks recorded a cover that was included as a B-side of their 2000 single "Goodbye Earl". This prompted some people to think that the cover was meant to be taken ironically as "Goodbye Earl" tells the story of two women murdering one's husband as a way to escape domestic violence.[16]
Country music star Carrie Underwood performed the song at the Grand Ole Opry in May 2008.[17]
In the 2022 film Mr. Harrigan's Phone, Craig's and Mr. Harrigan's phone ringtones are set to the song so that they know when the other is calling.[18]